*Friendship. I would like to meet someone that wants a true friend. Establish a bond. See if we can make something that sticks.
*Intimacy. Like when I unbutton your blouse one button at a time and not a word is spoken. You smile, start to glow, feel alive and smile again.
*Touch. I want to feel your nipples as you are on top of me and drag them across my chest. Ah....yes...my kind of holiday warmth.
*Gift Giving. Yep, I am a giver. Come from a good, stable family of humble givers. So, that means lots of compliments, kisses, smiles, reassurance, and some unanticipated gifts too:)
*Unwrapping. Yeah, I want you be my present. I have most things money can buy. I want to unwrap you slowly, appreciating you, seeing the beauty, taking my time. Of course, if you look that good, I just might act like a kid again and rip the paper off and smile like I am 6 again. Wow!
*Playing. What good are all these gifts if you can't play with them? Lets see..Hair, can I run my fingers thru it? Skin, can I touch you so lightly you smile in amazement? Neck, can I kiss is and make you wonder how good it will be when our lips meet?
*Thanks. Well...isn't it proper to write a "Thank You" note when one receives a gift. So, after you give yourself to me, may I write a sweet thank you for sharing. Something that makes you feel special, warm, and makes you glow inside and out?
*There is someone for everyone. There truly is. You just have remember that. Keep posting, replying. Trying. Striving. Also helps if you are good at screening too. Be honest, forthright and don't deceive. Above all, be yourself. Why? well eventually someone is going to see you naked? Ah...right about that. Also, the truth is never far...behind.
*Love is...everywhere. Love lurks where you least expect it. In a sub-way, department store, cab, hospital, church or school. It is everywhere, you just have to look for it.
*Be unselfish. Have a broken heart? Yep, I know that feeling. I do. What to do. Keep you mind off yourself. Be unselfish. Donate you time, money or skill to make others a happy holiday. Get out there. You can do it!
*Lingerie. What a great idea! Glad I thought of that. Put it on, you will look and feel better. Get yourself your favorite drink. Light a candle. Set the scene. Then, sit down at that keyboard and pound out the most romantic inviting post or reply you can imagine. People can sense romanticism and intimacy in print. So...let it out.
*Keep it in perspective. Hurting inside and out? Remember, your wounds are intangible. However, there are soldiers with broken legs, arms, pelvis that hurt a lot more. Your wounds will heal. You will love again. There's may not. So, keep it in perspective. Next time you see a member of our all volunteer Armed Forces, thank you. Why? They fight..so we can live and love...
*Pray. If you are spiritual, this is a great time of year to give thanks, pray, and renew. Slow down, let...love..come...to...you. Ah...see that's much easier...
*Do it! If you are thinking about making a move, calling, texting, writing, visiting...just do it. He/She might just be waiting...for....you.
*Snap it. Yeah, that's right. A picture is worth a 1,000 words. So, if you can take a pic, you ARE one step closer to the one you want, or desire, or crave, or need, or lust for. Snap it. Crop it. Post it. Send it. Display it. Even if it's just a face shot with a knock-out smile.
*Misteltoe. Ah...wondering when I was going to get around to that? So, put some up and plant one on someone. Let's start with the cheek though...
*Give. The holidays are a time to give. Gifts! Compliments! Time! Services! Skills! Caroling! Carol (well if she looks good, why not?). You get the idea. Everyone has something to give.
*Dream it. If you can dream it, you can do it. So draw a mental picture of you and that special person. Write a story board about how you are going to attract them, then act it out. Crash a party. Give a gift. Sing a carol. Go to Mass. Let someone have your seat on the T.
*Be Nice. Everyone can do this. Buy someone a drink. Let someone cut the line. Smile. Wink. Glance. Even a subtle stare if you think you can pull it off
*Take Action. If you are fit, attractive and romantic, write me.
I have tried to be good this year. I do most of the parenting in our household. Got the tree/wreath up early. Bought all the gifts. Also, I work. Fix cars. Buy food. Cook. Pack lunches. Paint. Repair. Fix. Do my own laundry. So, I have been thinking about what I want for Christmas..So, here's my wish list...and no I am not going to sit on your knee....
*Someone that's fit. Surely there must be one person out there who takes pride in their appearance as I do? And..if they have some of the red or black Christmas lingerie on underneath, please send them to the front of the line..
*Someone Conservative/Seductive. Yep, that means conservative on the outside. Professional, clean, wholesome dress. And, seductive on the inside. As in when we are alone I have my hands full with her.
*Someone with an imagination. Let's see..someone who appreciates whip cream, oil massages, rose petals dropped on them, skinny dipping, and maybe even being invited over to my Jacuzzi too.
*Someone who is selective. Geez, here on CL it's a meatmarket. Surely there must be someone with high standards, that is 100% clean, never a STD, and doesn't want to get one now either. Does such a person exist?
*Someone who is romantic and craves intimacy. On CL? You must be joking! A misprint? Nope. That means I want to get to know you and if it's good, stick with it. With just that person.
*Someone who is mouth-watering. You know what I mean. Nice skin. Happy smile. Taller than shorter. We'll flex on everything else...
So, you've been on CL, been deceived, disappointed, had your heart broken, and ofter wonder...is there a higher love for me or should I just give up?
Well, giving up would be the easy way out. However, if you did that, we wouldn't meet, would we? So...if you are tired of CL and long for something more, something better, and something that might last..then you want a....higher love.
I am good looking, very fit, 6ft 180, interesting, very humorous, intelligent and unhappily married. I do not care if you are married or not. I want to be liked by a woman that I like. I want to earn your affections by being nice to you. We can correspond and meet from time to time. This is not an I want sex right now ad but you can be sure that if you eventually want that it will be wonderful.