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Sleepless in Andover - m4w (Andover) 30yr

2009-11-12T12:37:46-05:00

Ill be honest, I have not been in love in a real long time, 8 years to be exact. I am 30, very attractive, women hit on me and I get a great deal proposals how ever once the fun is over they tend to be missing that thing I value. Now I figured I will try this. For starters I am Latino, so if you have an issue or stereo type than please move on. I am not nor are we all like the way they make us appear in the movies and news paper. I�m educated, I speak perfect English and I was born and raised here, I�m neither a drug dealer or user and hold a college degree.

Now for that thing I was talking about. I am speaking of that feeling that makes you feel lighter than you are, it makes you smile and makes you happy. It causes you to remember everything about that persona dn life itself. It makes you want to kiss her a lot and when you make love you get so lost in it that it last for hours. It makes her taste sweeter than honey and more valuable than your self. It starts with WOW! And ends with a YIPEEE! You find your self looking at her as if she is the most beautiful thing your eyes have seen in a life time, it makes you hope that death is not around the corner cause time is going to fast and you have yet to enjoy the finer things she brings. It signifies all that is you.

I have realized a while back that I might die never knowing how all this feels again and the truth is that it makes me so sad.

Woburn Superior Court Colonel - w4m (Woburn) 37yr

2009-11-12T10:11:14-05:00

I saw you last Friday, 11/6, in court. I was a member of the jury in one of the 5th floor court rooms. It was a criminal case with Justice Hamlin. You came in to drop off something to one of the court officers. When you turned to exit, we locked eyes for a few seconds. I thought you were hot & made me lose my concentration for a bit ;) You were very tall (probably over 6 feet), in your 30s, very fit, and your head was shaved. Needless to say, I'm single and I'd love to meet you. I hope that you get this message, somehow.

Rte 3 South (Drum Hill to Rte 495) - m4w (Rte 3) 27yr

2009-11-12T09:32:58-05:00

I was driving south on rte 3
you were in a silver SUV
this morning
nov 12th, thursday, around 830am
caught eyes
I was in a green pontiac
you were adjusting your shirt
think it was red
had something hanging from your mirror
you are gorgeous
a beauty that put me beside myself
respond to meet for coffee
or get a drink

Dunkin Donuts/Mobil - this morning - m4w (Billerica - Middlesex Trnpk)

2009-11-12T08:41:41-05:00

You had shoulder length, beautiful, dark hair, Tanned skin, wearing a long tan over coat (looked very warm and comfy!)...

You left with your coffee but had to come back in for something...and I was fortunate enough to hold the door for you.

I am still thinking about your little giggle as I said, "It is my pleasure." I would love to hold the door for you one more time - but this time, I wouldn't let you walk away...

Is there enough magic in the air to make that happen?

Rich from Hard Rock - Tampa, FL - w4m (Haverhill) 54yr

2009-11-12T00:39:02-05:00

Met you on 11/2/09 at the Hard Rock Casino Lobby Bar in Tampa, FL...
Please reply if you think this is you..

-Donna

best friends - m4m (Billerica) 22yr

2009-11-11T23:50:43-05:00

where to start. Mike I know you love craigslist so heres to hoping you find this. We both worked and went to school together. I've liked you for a few years now. I've figured you would know by now but i'm not sure you do. I thought telling you I might be gay would maybe make you think that. I feel since I've told you we've grown closer. I think you may feel the same about me as well and just don't know how to react. We both agree on almost everything from cars to politics. I truely hope you find this and have the courage to email me.

If you think this is you tell me your name, year, make, model, and color of your car.

I truely hope you read this mike

Shorts and Boots - m4w (Trader Joes Burlingyon)

2009-11-11T18:48:22-05:00

You rock those shorts, I have not seen legs that great in a long time, What you didn't see was the reaction of every man in the store who saw you. Wished I was able to talk with you.

To the OP of: my last words - m4w

2009-11-11T17:25:23-05:00

Several people have asked you for initials, as one post stated, you struck a nerve with quite a few people, including me. You obviously wanted the person you intended the message for to see your post. Once it was notice by others, you removed it. If this post were for me, I�d tell you that if your words were sincere, as usual, you took the coward way out. Instead of being true to your heart, you chose to live your life as a facade yet again. If you are in love with someone else, why are you hurting others by this lie you continue to live? Do you ever consider whether or not they all question whether or not you are being true to them as well as yourself? Do you ever consider if others really want someone in their life that honestly doesn't love them, but continues to lie just to save face? Do you ever consider that others don�t want you hurting the one that they love for their sake? What about the person that you are in love with, but choose to hurt so deeply because you're ignoring your true feelings? Either way, when you're not true or honest to yourself, you're still being unfaithful and a scumbag to everyone else. You have no right to hurt anyone else because you choose to be a martyr. If you really had compassion or a heart, you wouldn't have done what you did, treated people the way you did and continue to do. You destroyed someone's heart in order to save face and fool everyone into thinking that you are on an unreachable pedestal. That�s the bottom line, you really don�t care, your words are crap and your actions speak volumes. You are very self centered and self serving. A real man would step up, be true to his heart instead of living a lie and stop taking the coward way out and most importantly, fix what you did with everyone so that everyone can move on and begin the healing process. Believe me, if you had allowed everyone to be hurt initially, go through the anger process they would be healing now and moving forward with a new phase in their lives, not sitting there knowing how you really feel and questioning your sincerity with everything. Just a thought. BTW, if this was for me, I'd also tell you that I used to be ybg but now I�m a very broken hearted person, yeah, I hate you for it and yet, still miss you tremendously and want you back in my life.

Spirital angel thank you (Still out there lost)

2009-11-11T15:56:23-05:00

I just wanted to thank you. I did read your post in response to mine. Very insightful and it helped pick my head up.:)

RE: always be my girl... - w4m

2009-11-11T11:35:24-05:00

This struck me...

I have been meaning to have a conversation with someone along these very lines.
The only thing that ws distrubing was the blood tears thing... But the rest of it was nice.

Sometimes it takes sometime to go back to a friendship when there has been a rift.
I wish you the best

PiratePassion - m4w (Lowell) 41yr

2009-11-11T09:32:50-05:00

Your fantasy is to take a trip on a ship with billowing sails run by modern day pirates. You sent me a collect message and let me see your private photos. You are very attractive and I am hoping we can chat.

-White_collar_gent.

Oar house in Portsmouth? (Portsmouth, nh) 35yr

2009-11-10T23:02:18-05:00

You were stunning at the bar. I was hungry. Where are you now?

the ambulance driver - w4m (lexington)

2009-11-10T22:33:15-05:00

just wondering who the ambulance driver is that gave me the nice compliment as i was leaving work in lexington on tuesday night?
thanks, you made my night!!

Long Red Coat - m4w (Lowell)

2009-11-10T22:08:43-05:00

You were walking down Merrimack Street with Dunks in your hands at about 11 this morning. It's always a pleasure to see you downtown.

re-why did you even bother? - w4w 25yr

2009-11-10T21:44:03-05:00

im not the poster.. not sure who wnted to kno ages? im 25 the one i text is 24...

re.why did you even bother - w4w 25yr

2009-11-10T20:36:50-05:00

hey i kno this is prob not 4 me but i was just checkin??

re- jaded8571 - m4w (still here)

2009-11-10T20:36:24-05:00

intials? sounds like this is for me...

Hey Babydoll - m4w 50yr

2009-11-10T12:16:33-05:00

I miss you!!!

dracut gym this afternoon - m4m (dracut)

2009-11-09T17:21:34-05:00

We switched off spotting each other for a couple of exercises. You spotted me more though. Introduced each other by name finally. But I wasn't ballsy enough to say anything.

We talked about where you'll be going to school in the spring, right now you're just taking a break.

We talked about your past school also.

I think you'll know who you are if you see this and you'll know exactly what gym too.

Tell me your name, car make, and school you're going to in the spring. Then we can go from there.

<3when i hear this,i always think of u remember<3 - w4m (alive) 25yr

2009-11-09T12:00:21-05:00

well you done done me and you bet i felt it
i tried to get you but you're so hot that i melted
i fell right through the cracks
and i'm trying to get back
before the cool done run out
i'll be giving it my bestest
nothin's going to stop me but devine intervention
i reckon its again my turn to win some or learn some

i won't hesitate no more
no more it cannot wait, i'm yours

well open up your mind and see like me
open up your plans and damn you're free
look into your heart and you'll find love love love
listen to the music of the moment maybe sing with me
ah la peaceful melody
its your godforsaken right to be loved love loved love love

so i won't hesitate no more
no more it cannot wait i'm sure
theres no need to complicate
our time is short
this is our fate, i'm yours

i been spending way too long checking my tongue in the mirror
and bendin over backwards just to try to see it clearer
my breath fogged up the glass
so i drew a new face and laughed
i guess what i'm sayin is there ain't no better reason
to rid yourself of vanity and just go with the seasons
its what we aim to do
our name is our virtue

i won't hesitate no more
no more it cannot wait i'm sure
theres no need to complicate
our time is short
it cannot wait, i'm yours

Re re money isn't everything - m4w (Still lost)

2009-11-09T11:45:06-05:00

Thank you for your advice and your thoughts on this matter. It is consuming all of my time. I want to drop everything and run to her but I'm still concerned about our money situation. Statisics and I've seen it time and time again how many people in good relationships that really love each other fail because of money. I'm affriad of failing her, her wounderful kids, and me. I love her and I was always taught to be the rock for my family. I don't have the confidence in me that I can be at this moment. I'm a strong person with a strong will but this has brought me to my knees. I'm not sure how I'm gonna be happy. I agree with your responses and am thankful for your feedback. I'm really not sure how to deal with this. My mind is so clouded. This is the one time in my life where I can't come up with some brillent plan to get things the way they should be. This cuts so deep and it makes me question the poor excuse of a man I've become to be. I'm not feeling sorry for myself. It just is what it is. This whole thing has rocked my world to it's core . Thank you again.

Beautiful professor (Merrimac college) 26yr

2009-11-09T11:24:17-05:00

You are the most beautiful woman I have seen in a while. You were tall with gorgeous brown hair. Your glasses belied the intelligence I could tell you possessed. You were conducting student conferences last friday. I was sitting in a chair reading. I'm not sure if you caught me looking, and if you did you probably thought I was just another 18 year old smitten by your beauty. I'm not 18 but I certainly was smitten.

re money isnt everything - m4w (here)

2009-11-09T10:30:38-05:00

i agree with the last post..
I have to been in a very similar situation. leaving your words unspoken never helps heal your heart.
Why be unhappy? your life is yours.what you do with it. shouldnt matter. I know that this would be difficult. but if you love her and she loves you then be in love together.
I lost the one i love over family sistuations and it hurt sooo bad.. I will never heal from that.. please dont make my mistake... take the chance..it will be worth it..

Money isn't everything - m4w (Lost)

2009-11-09T00:43:07-05:00

If I could. I'd leave to be with you. I love you. There is no doubt about that. I love you so damn much. My dreams and fantacies all have you and only you in them. I day dream about you. I want to love the indavidual woman in you and at the same time respect, love, and be a good role modle for the kids. I want to be a good brother in law and help on a whim on some sunday after noon. I want to be a good son on law. Help out your dad with things that need to be done around the house. I want to put up Christmas lights with the kids in the snow. ( we'll always have taughton ). I want to help you bring in the groceries and listen to you bitch and complain about me leaving my shoes in the livingroom. I want all of this and more with you. My concerns are.. How can I be a good provider? How do I get out of the mess I'm in? My debt and yours together would create more of a problem. I'm scared of taking a huge risk and in the end lose you anyway. God only knows what my heart feels for you. I know you are just as confused about everything as I am. I don't know what's right or wrong anymore. All I do know for sure is I miss you, I love you, and no matter how this turns out I will always love you. I pray everyday and everynight .. It seems that's all I can do. I walk with my head high. But I'm dieing inside without you. Time heals everything. The only thing it can't do is erase the scar that's is left on my heart.

RE- I HAVE TO SAY IT HERE - m4w (HERE)

2009-11-08T22:43:56-05:00

if you love her the then y the distance? just curious!!!

LF in Tyngsboro - w4m (Tyngsboro, MA)

2009-11-08T21:43:53-05:00

You (LF) are married but I don't think it's too happily and I wonder if a divorce is in the near future. You seem interested when we talk but I can't be sure. Is there a divorce in the works? I'd love to go out with you when you're single!

All this time - w4m (My heart,MA) 25yr

2009-11-08T20:54:39-05:00

I often sit and think about you, I dont know why? It just seems to happen..I wonder if you think of me? I bet you don't.. Because you know where Iam..
Its a sad end to our friendship ..Im sorry.. and i miss you... and i just want it all back..My heart will heal..I promise.. just dont hate me..
<3,ME

one year ago tonight - w4m (found in mass. ) 35yr

2009-11-08T17:46:42-05:00

One year ago tonight, I sat outside in this very spot. Very lost. I made one of the hardest but the best decision of my life. If I had known that one year later, I'd be back with you, my true love, I wouldn't have been so scared. Thank you. You found me.

3 bubbles - m4w (lowell,ma) 46yr

2009-11-08T10:33:33-05:00

are you there

Adam at Skateland, Thursday nights - m4m (Haverhill, MA) 30yr

2009-11-06T21:13:16-05:00

My friends will probably give me so much shit for this if they find it, LOL! But, whatever. Adam, I've been checking you out for the last several years at Skateland, and have always wondered if you have checked ME out. We've totally talked and you've always been really friendly with me; is it just because you're a nice guy? Maybe you're not even into guys at all? Maybe you are? Who the f*** knows! I have never been able to figure you out! Regardless, you're quite cute ;-)

There is a next to nothing chance you will ever read this, but if you do, feel free to say hi :-)

RE: I loved you - m4w

2009-11-06T18:08:24-05:00

Any hints or clues ?
This could be for me ....
Did we spend last weekend together ?

wish i bought more tickets - w4m (bradford) 33yr

2009-11-06T16:23:28-05:00

..maybe i would have won your phone number. Hope you see this. BTW you look so delicious in glasses! (bradford, ma)

I miss my bestie!!! - w4m (still here!!) 25yr

2009-11-05T20:58:33-05:00

I cant even believe im doing this...but you are way to important to me to just leave it all unspoken.
For way to long we have been friends.. When i needed you .you were there.. Anytime things went down and I didnt want to move on you pushed me....
I Loved eveything about you... from the moment i met you.. But in fear of our friendship falling apart I never spoke of it..
I grew up..found a relationship..had 3 beautiful kids...and you were still around.. Until oneday you nolonger answered my calls...y??? you grew up too.. met a girl.. she didnt approve of our "friendship". And i guess thats how it wemt down.. but how???10 months later u contact me.. knowin I'm always there 4 u..i answer.. we talk..MEMORIES u know.. It was nice.. U start sayin ur TRUE feelings.. if thats what u want to call them.. I fall for it... Im such a idiot...Now its different.. We will never be the same.. I will never heal.. ,My heart i handed you out of trust.. and you didnt care.. 12 years of friendship gone...over mixed emotions and lies..
I'm sooo sorry to disappoint you but this isnt me.. i can no longer continue on with this.. It hurts to much..I promised i wouldnt run away...
So im walkin and you'll never catch me... cuz your not even aware Im falling<3 I LOVE U..thats why im letting you go!!

Guy in yellow track pants - w4m (PF in Wilmington)

2009-11-05T19:55:59-05:00

You are an amazingly good looking guy who I keep seeing at the gym. In fact you were doing back exercises tonight right beside me. You wearing the yellow track pants and white t-shirt.
Me in white tank and navy blue pants. I think you know who I am.

Are you single?

Would like to get to know you better (Panera) 50yr

2009-11-05T11:31:52-05:00

I see you often at Panera. We talk about general things always near other people. Just wondering if you would like to meet for lunch and get to know each other better?

email response from Richard L. - w4m

2009-11-05T11:23:02-05:00

Originally I posted:

I was paying for my stuff and taking a long time. you were patiently waiting behind me. you were so cute!

You responded via email:
You are pretty smokin hott yourself

My response to you is:
What time was it?
Describe yourself to prove it was you.
Describe me. Do you remember what I was wearing?

waaahh!

its so so DIFFICULT! Give me a fucking break , what kind of person do you think i am??

the gift u left on my bike rack yesterday (just passing through)

THANK YOU!

You made my day. :-D

JC I would have left him for you... - w4m (Lowell/Chelmsford/Westford) 34yr

Life is passing us by...you were my lover, my confidant, and my best friend and a day doesn't go by without a feeling of longing, a feeling of loss, a feeling of my heart left in a million pieces...Tell me you never loved me...

Kelly W. @ MCC (Burlington) 37yr

Kelly W. from MCC I dunno what the odds are of you seeing this but I figure it can't hurt. I think you are very beautiful and you seem like a really cool person to hang with. You have no idea what I would give to hang w/ you 4 a night ...or to see you naked.

lowell registry of mv - m4w (lowell) 44yr

teller slot # 10--don't wanna embarass you but I've never met anyone with eyes as beautiful as Elizabeth Taylor and a better figure!! just wondering.....are you taken?

Mr. Jiffy Lube....you made me smile - w4m (Billerica MA) 24yr

Got an oil change today. Wish I got your name, too.

NECC - m4m (haverhill/merrimack) 22yr

I see you at school in between classes on the second floor of C building. Let me know if your interested.

"Ladies First" in the bank parking lot - w4m (Billerica)

Just a simple phrase and a smile, but I was too shy to say hello...

there was a connection - w4m

now that it's gone, i can recognize that it did exist.
for so long i was confused about you, but now i understand.

wishing i met you when i felt more. but life has made me numb to possibility and ignorant of my feelings. numb and dumb ,unable to know what i've lost until it is gone...

I am here - w4m (north reading) 42yr

Hi I am in Boston You and I talked for 5 mons I hate the wheather in Boston you know who I am please I don't want to talk on this web site please respond